Greetings all, Dan here.
Most of you are aware of this but our son Nicholas Frank Chadwick was born at 5:22 on August 16th, 2009. He weighed in at 7 pounds, 15 ounces and was about 21 inches long.
It’s taken us awhile to upload some photos and update the blog. The photos can be found here.
The reason behind this is we just brought Nicole and Nicholas home yesterday. Nearly a full week after Nicole went into labour. Many of you know the reasons why already, the rest of you are going to find out by reading onwards.
Last Saturday we were waiting to head got up at 6:00 in the morning so we could call the hospital about getting Nicole induced into labour as at that point Nicholas was 11 days overdue. Langley Memorial’s Maternity Ward was very busy that morning and they did not have the nursing staff available to monitor her at the time so we were told to call back at 11:30. When we didwe found that they still couldn’t take her in and that they would call when they could. Hour or so later they called and told us to come in after lunch.
We arrived and they started the induction process while monitoring Nicholas and Nicole. After a couple of hours we were told we could leave and come back in six hours for a second application. So we went to Ricky’s for dinner.
Once we returned to the hospital it was decided that Nicole’s contractions were to close together to risk a second round of the induction jelly so they admitted her and started her on oxytocin at about 11:30 Saturday night. At this point I discovered that I wouldn’t be getting much sleep due to the type of sleeping arrangements and my bad back. So I dosed from time to time and watched TV while Nicole tried to get some sleep. All along she was being monitored by a nurse.
Things progressed so that by 4:30 am Nicole was 4 cm dilated and well into active labour. Half an hour later she was 9 cm dilated. At this point we call our parent’s as both mothers wanted to be there for the delivery. Neither arrived on time as Nicholas was born a mere 22 minutes later by the same nurse that had stayed by Nicole all night.
Nicholas came out as healthy as could be and is very cute. He was not the problem however.
Because of the speed of the birth and because this was Nichole’s first child her cervix and birth canal did not stretch enough as needed and Nicole was torn up inside very badly and was loosing blood fast. The on call doctor tried to stitch things up as best she could be was unable to get the bleeding to stop so she called in the on call gynecologist who after a couple of minutes decided that there was simply no way to finish the job while Nicole was awake and made the call to move her into an OR so that they may finish the job.
Now at this point we knew it was serious but we weren’t convinced it was life threatening. I was exhausted and there was nothing to be done by me waiting at the hospital so I came home to catch a few winks. I was called back in about two and half hours later and was updated on the situation. Nicole had to have 4 units of blood transfused as she had lost so much. They nearly lost her and we were told that she might not make it. At one point they even indicated that they might have to transfer her to another, bigger, hospital to get the job done.
Fortunately they got the job done and Nicole spent the next 24 plus hours in the ICU. I was able to visit her a couple of times and each time I did she looked better and stronger. Nicholas was only allowed down to the ICU once during that period and was formula fed for those first few hours as Nicole was unable to breast feed. I spent the night upstairs in the maternity ward with him getting a crash course in feeding, burping and diaper changing. I was unable to get any sleep that night either. Watched alot of Discovery Channel though.
After the initial 24 hours or so had passed Nicole was moved back up to the maternity ward but was confined to her bed for several days. For the next week, her mother Pat would spell me during the day so I could get some much needed sleep and I would stay at the hospital at night to change diapers, keep Nicole company and pass him over to her for regular breast feedings. I personally want to thank Pat for her help. I don’t know what I would have done without it. I also want to thank those of you who offered your assistance though we ended up not needing it and thanks to my parent’s for the moral support as always.
Nicole was finally able to get out of bed on Wednesday, was much stronger on Thursday and was finally discharged on Friday morning. Before we returned home we went to Ricky’s Restaurant for breakfast bring the whole event full circle.
Mother and son are healthy and home safely. (Nicole is well on the mend.)
We cannot thank the doctor’s and nurses at Langley Memorial Hospital (specifically the Maternity Ward and ICU) enough for their great care. They saved Nicole’s life and helped Pat and I care for Nicholas when Nicole was unable to get out of bed. They aren’t paid enough for what they do and there isn’t enough of them. Shame on Fraser Health Authority and the Provincial and Federal Governments for allowing that to happen.
Since Nicole and I got married we have been blessed by many things. Our son, our marriage, our honeymoon, our new home (Photos of that to be added in the future), our family and our friends have been unbelievable to us since we met in 2007. We do not take any of it for granted and our thankful for it everyday.
Further events in the next month or so will be discussed on this blog after they occur. Until then, with much love, we end this in our usual way.
Peace!